The Tantric Sex Worker
For men who want to master the art of sex, Tantric coaches are escorts with a mission!
The majority of escorts are offering their bodies and their willingness for their bodies to be used to their clients.
Recently a new type of client has emerged in the West, a client who does not just want a female body to crave his sexual urge and often loneliness. Instead he is looking for an education – an education in mastering the art of sex.
Tantra is a word that is springing up a lot more these days. It is used most often in regards to sexual situations, however it is infact an entire lifestyle in the same way that Yoga is not just about stretching and exercising.
The philosophical guru Osho summed up the differences between Yoga and Tantra as “Yoga is suppression with awareness, and Tantra is indulgence with awareness”
Sting famously admitted to following a Tantric sexual path with his wife Trudi, and more recently Charlie Sheen refers to his 2 girlfriends as Goddesses – which is a Tantric term used to approach the female in the sexual union (females refer to their male partner as God in a session).
Whilst most people do not really understand it well, there is this enigma and envy that comes forth when talking about Tantra.
Slowly this trickle of awareness has grown into a genuine desire for many men across the world. The benefits for men include elongating sexual intercourse, separating orgasm from ejaculation, mastering the art of orgasm in their female partner and male multiple orgasms.
For women the benefits are also multiple orgasms, elongation and heightening of orgasms and for both parties Tantra fosters a union of energy to create a spiritual experience that heightens the sexual arousement and connection to their partner.
Whilst couples benefit enormously from exploring Tantra, the nature of the energy work allows experienced Tantra coaches to achieve a solid profound union sexually even with “souls” they have never met before. For escorts that have an interest and have been guided in the art of Tantra they are able to achieve a greater connection with their clients that benefits themselves as well as their clients.
This new sex industry field is ideal for the escort that genuinely enjoys sex and has an interest in developing their skills further.
Tantra is about indulgence and acceptance. There is no place in Tantra for shame, denial or withholding
.The idea behind Tantra is to transcend sex, which is another way of saying become celibate. Yet unlike the religions of Christianity, Islam and Judaism, celibacy is something that will naturally emerge after indulgence and decadent devouring of every form of sex has taken place.
Most religions ban sex or restrict it in one form another, whether its no sex allowed for priests, no sex out of marriage for followers, or no other sexual partners than the person you married.
Tantra adopts an entirely different philosophy, that of allowance and understanding.
Dotted throughout India are temples for Tantra. Incorporated into the outside walls of the temples are amazing statues depicting every sexual act you could possibly imagine (and many that are difficult to imagine!). The symbolism is that you cannot possibly enter your inner self (the temple) without first discovering, acknowledging and enjoying the body first.
Denial is not a route in. People who choose to deny their sexual urges rather than transform them will never reach enlightenment/God/Universal understanding in the eyes of the Tantrics.
Firstly do not deny any of your sexual fantasies, instead you work on accepting them as creations of the mind (and the ego) and letting them descend to the level of the body. It is this body level that must be healed before you can be free.
Respect for each partner is paramount. The terms God and Goddess are used, not as some ego centric play on power but as acknowledgment that God dwells inside each of us, and that in a sexual union the female is the archetypal Goddess and the male the archetypal God.
Despite the billions of other males and females in the world, inside that sexual union there exists only 1 of each.
As the Tantra session is about listening to the body first, much is made of the senses and how they can be used to heighten sexuality. Breathing is the core, and using the rhythm of the breath to dictate the tempo is a very effective tool for encouraging a build up of energy.
Touch, smell, taste and sound are also focused on individually as foreplay until maximum energy is reached.
Experienced Tantra coaches can guide the novice to feel the different levels of energy by bringing them back to awareness. The experienced coach can use this energy to elongate the entire session which not only achieves a more powerful orgasm, but also creates the environment for trying to separate ejaculation from orgasm. It is not easy to think of men being able to do this, but physically the processes are separate and do not have to occur in unison.
Many men would love to be able to achieve this technique, and with the right experienced and professional Tantra coach this can be achieved.
Unlike hiring traditional escorts for a one time release, Tantra takes a commitment of emotions and time. Usually a coach will require several sessions to achieve the desired outcome. The first meeting should be to determine the outcome desired by the client.
Often a sexual problem needs to be overcome first, and Tantra is one of the best practises to effectively and speedily rectify numerous dysfunctions including; premature ejaculation, loss of erection, failure to bring female to orgasm, lack of confidence and reliance on pornography.
Once the issues and outcome have been addressed, the Tantra Coach will be able to set up the sessions that will best serve the client. This can be one on one intimate sessions, intimate sessions with the clients partner, non-intimate sessions with the clients partner (whereby the Tantra coach verbally guides the couple), or less intimately by providing techniques in a counselling type session that the client can then use in his own space.
CleverKnicKers is an advocate of Tantra and we have several Tantra coaches who can work with clients to achieve a mastering of sexual practises as well as a spiritual oneness.
CleverKnicKers is arranging a series of workshops to teach escorts the art of Tantra throughout 2011. If you would like further details please email:
sj@CleverKnicKers.com











