This months Insight…….When is a skirt not a skirt?…..
Stilettos are “fuck me” shoes as  lamented by feminists world wide.  Bras also became a symbol of repressed sexuality and were subsequently burned or simply waved above the head in demonstration.  No-one burned their skirt, no-one went “skirt-less”.
With the odd and sometimes sexy exceptions (I’m thinking kilts here) skirts remain the domain of women.
Men have moved into their long pants from sarongs and longans of the East, and with their legs astride and their penises completely in their own control (its tricky enough unzipping a fly, and nigh on impossible if the fly owner doesnt want you to!) there appears to be no reason or expression to move away from the trousers that dominate their wardrobe and unfortunately this world.

Skirts however have fallen under the radar.  They never became a feminist symbol aka bras, they entangle more femaleness than sexuality unlike stilettos, and they invoke a variety of moods and concepts in a way that trousers will never be able to do; think floaty feminine, leather hooker, classmistress, fashion puffball etc
The type of skirt you wear can send out huge messages to your onlookers.  Confidence is the only character that can carry off a short skirt and high heels, yet a short skirt and cowboy boots is more playful than in your face sexy.
Skirts speak their own language – as do trousers, and using this language to your advantage is a skill well worth aquiring.

As with all CKS insights, this article is for women who work directly or indirectly in the sex industry, as well as for any woman who wishes to learn more insights into sex, men and the arts of attraction, seduction, and sexual empowerment.
Trousers, pants, jeans, hipsters, skinnies, leggings, jodphurs..whatever form a trouser may take is an absolute NO NO in regards to the sex industry!
Yes some trousers are sexy, some trousers are incredibly sexy and they most definately have their place on women outside of the sex industry.  Even those really sexy leather pants that make you look slimmer than Kate Moss and your butt more desirable than Beyonce (or maybe Kylie if thats more your shape).
Skirts = Female. The end!  Men cannot wear skirts so it’s purely a female dominion, and in a female dominion females and femaleness rule!
By wearing a skirt you are subconsciously (and consciously) reminding every male out there that you are a female.  In the transactions of sex and those based on sex (75% of all other transactions!) this subtle reminder is essential and will aid in your success as an escort, dancer, stripper, a glamour model or other relevant jobs.

When women wear sexy pants they have added another phrase to just “I am sexy”. “I wear the pants AND Im sexy”!  This is challenging and intimidating to many men – perfect in so many other areas of your life and should definately be worked with when you need to exude those phrases.  As a sex worker however you do not want a man to feel challenged, your perfect client will desire you and view you as the tempting Goddess that he needs. He will acknowledge your femaleness and thus his maleness in just one eyeful of a skirt hem!
Skirts are flirtatious and playful.  Even the use of the word as in “skirting around the issue” implies being flirtatious and indirect.  Skirts ARE playful and fun….and of course easy!
Slipping them on, slipping them off, hitched up around the waist or dropped to the floor…the access is there and this is the hidden subtlety of the sexual power of a skirt.
Hands can wander up them from any angle, eyes can become mesmerized by the sway of a hem line or the tightness of the fabric across the butt.  Men will anticipate the length of the skirt once you sit down and will watch your hands smooth your skirt when you stand.
The cloak of the skirt is like a veil to an unknown bride…what does lie beneath?
Without a skirt, stocking and suspenders would lose their sexy status overnight!  A flash of a stocking top can only be achieved if its skirt partner is co-operating.
Keep those really Hot sexy trousers for nights out with your friends, job interviews, mortgage or loan requests or any situation that requires you to exude a direct sexy no bullshit confidence.
For seduction and sex work NEVER ever ever ever put on a pair of trousers unless specifically requested to.
Even if its with a regular client, never fall into the easy view of thinking its okay as “he knows me very well by now” claim.  Your success depends on knowing these details.  Men love skirts.  Men love taking your skirt off, putting their hands up your skirt, thinking about you in a skirt, hitching your skirt up, wondering what you are wearing under your skirt and on and on and on.
Of course dresses too are a feminine and sexy option but they lose points for being less versatile.
Sashaying out of your skirt can be done in a graceful and fluid action, yet dresses often require more thought.
This seasons skirts are very short, but as we know at CKS some skirts never go out of the sexy fashion list!